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[23 Mar 2006|04:52pm]
Some things

New found freedom,
Joy and peace,
Come at a price
Families tend to step back
and friends tend to run
all at once, no one seems to know or understand
who you are, and what you stand for
All you can do is stand tall
And be who you are
For although things may change,
And people along with it,
Certain things will never change
Such as the most important thing
Love, and the fact that
Everyone deserves a chance to

I wrote this a few days ago. Cross posted on ap. Life is good. Mom and i are on semi-speaking terms again, but the relationship between my brother and i is detorating at a fast pace. Up until about a month ago he wasnt all the religous, and now he is. It seems like all of the letters he writes are filled with scripture, and him telling me i am in sin.. Grr.. how about just saying hi and seeing how life is? It just amazes me that he can turn so judgemental all at once. He posted a journal about what is going on on myspace, and he and mom both commented on it, and when i replied to the comments, they deleted them, If your going to talk about me, at least let me defend myself. It almost just feels like ther is like no one way to deal with this. Christians ( or at least some of them) dont like talking about homosexuality, and homosexuals dont really like talking about christianity. So its kinda miffing. Crap. crap crap. Its just frustrating. It feels like everyone in the family to some extent just wants this to go away. Do they think i dont? do they think i made a choice? It was hard enough coming to the decison to accept that this is part of who i am... But it is part of who i am, and that is somthing that will not ever go away. Trying to supress it ( i really dislike that word) will not help, it will only make it stronger. Patience is a virtue i guess, and i one i will have to learn. Sorry this is really negagtive, and i know it... Thanks for reading anyway.

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newbie [16 May 2005|12:50pm]

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Hello all! Just browsed and came upon this community and decided to join. I'm 31, and my wife is 28, from Long Island. Looking forward to seeing what this community has in store. Any questions? ;-)

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What a relief! [28 Apr 2005|08:04pm]

Hey I'm so happy that a group like this exists! Just because we have more options doesn't mean we can't be monogamous! I love my boyfriend dearly and even though I discovered how bi I was while dating him and have never gotten the chance to be with a girl, I love him and I'm totally and utterly convinced that he's the man I want to spend the rest of my life with...so that's all I need!

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Straight Spouse Network [14 Mar 2005|11:40am]


I wanted to post this link here in case it might be a help to anyone.

There are a few times in the past my wife feared my orientation might slip more to the homosexual side. My answer is that I love her for who she is and not for her gender, and that I would always want to be with her regardless. This organization apparently helps couples through their emotions and fears on this subject, though I cannot personally vouch for them.

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[27 Feb 2005|12:28am]

I'm Shay. I'm omnisexual, married, & monogamous. I have had sexual relationships with 2 different women in the past, but not since I've been married. My husband knows of my sexuality & supports me. He's even said I could have a girlfriend if I chose...but I'm too committed to him & I just don't believe in cheating.

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Allo [15 Feb 2005|12:35am]

I am so glad I found this community. I'm bisexual and monogamous 100% and it makes me happy that there are other bisexual people out there who feel the same way. ^.^ The stereotype that all bisexual people must also be polyamourous really annoys me and offends me.

Anyway, my name's Angel, I'm 21 and single. I've never had a girlfriend but I'm looking forward to changing that. can't wait to get to know you all. ^.^


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Intro [29 Jan 2005|06:51am]

Hi, my name is Marauder. I'm female, currently going to college, and my fiance and I are getting married once we've finished our respective educations.

I don't fit into what a lot of people think of as bisexual, because I've never been in a relationship with another woman, I'm Catholic, and I'm pro-life. I also think that polyamory is something that can only lead to hurt feelings, jealousies, and general disaster.

I don't condemn people for whatever they do sexually, but I think that people should only have sex with someone they're in love with. A lot of people think this makes me too idealistic; however, I think the world needs idealists if anything's going to change.

It's possible to love two people at once, and you can't change who you love. However, having a romantic-sexual relationship with two people at once strikes me as rather selfish. It doesn't matter how "open" or "free" people claim they are; due to basic human nature, jealousies are going to develop. No one wants to be someone else's alternative option or second choice.

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Hi! I'm new. [27 Jan 2005|10:20am]

Just ran across this community while searching interests.

I'm bi, but did not know it until after I married as the hetero I always believed I was back in '97. I believe in monogamy, and in the commitments my wife and I made to each other at our wedding. I don't believe I need partners of both genders for sexual fulfillment, but simply that I'm wired for either. The last time I completed a Kinsey worksheet, I came out to a 2.14 on the 0 to 6 scale, so I lean slightly to the hetero side.

I also moderate a community for GLBT Christian furries. Umm, I guess that's enough for now. ^.^


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[13 Jan 2005|12:16pm]

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I have the most wonderful lover in the world. She and I have been together for almost a year now (I can't wait to surprise her with my idea for the year anniversary...i can't talk about it on here just in case she watches the community at a future point!)

I've always believed in monogamy. It's never crossed my mind that I wanted to be with more than one person. Only once did I have a thought that maybe I needed to endulge with men and women (I'm pansexual by the way) but quickly it passed and I knew that my baby was the ONLY one I needed in life to survive in this harsh world.

I get tired of hearing about people saying that monogamy doesn't exist amongts bi's and other gender loving people. It's just plain ridiculous and totally non accurate.

Know that Im' not closed minded to people who want to date more than one person...that's just fine with me...however, it's not FOR me. Monogamy is something I thrive on and love...andI love my one and only. :)

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[13 Jan 2005|11:18am]

Don't be afraid...POST! :)

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